This made me smile.  I suspect I might have demonstrated a similar attitude as a small child!

It also made me think…

No-one ever refers to a man as ‘bossy’ do they?

So, if it’s not an appropriate for a man, let’s not use it for women either.

Lets take our cue from the little leader in the image (which by the way I think I’m right to attribute to  hoppygirlbrews on flickr) and appreciate skills, wherever we see them.