There’s a presupposition of NLP which says that every behaviour has a positive intention. Now on first hearing that, lots of people have said to me over the years “I don’t believe that’s true.” I’m not saying it’s absolutely true. What I’m saying is it can be a useful way of looking at things. As with all of the NLP presuppositions we’re not necessarily saying that they’re true all the time, but what we know is that if we behave is if they were true, then we can get some useful results…